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Treading the Boards Walking the Walk

by Twitchy Corner on September 2, 2014

Wisdom: The things in life you regret most are the ones you never did. A truth that resonates with me enormously.

Confession: I was born a creative, musical type but also an anxious one, conundrum. I love participating; hate the idea of being watched. I love nothing better than live music shows but crowds make me so edgy, I sit out.

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Difficulty factor: I’ve skillfully handed this genetic baton directly to my seven-year old daughter. Our home-brand see-saw of counter energies is a major problem for her. Hard enough is watching your child struggle; harder again knowing from where the difficulty has come.

At Saturday dance class again she froze. Pairs of happy parental eyes looked on from beyond the glass.

Stiff as a statue, she wouldn’t join. “My tummy has the bad butterflies, Mummy…” She clung with dread. I hugged her, whispered in her ear, “Dance them away, Bub. Dance them away.” Eventually she did, challenge accepted. Other times we’ve had to go home but thankfully not that day.

Saturday night, we attended a fundraiser. I had a second invitation that evening, one that excited and challenged my every nerve, yet I reserved the right to decide flight or flight until the last moment.

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Vintage 60s Purple Velvet makes everything better, surely.

I love this dress and vintage dresses generally but I hate selfies. I don’t mind at all when other people do it but I never feel comfortable. Challenge accepted. Plus, bathroom breathing diversion. The hall was bigger and  filled with many more attendees than I’d imagined.

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Silver and black cushions for the new modular lounge. Olga Berg ‘Mocha’ clutch for me.

Next, the auction results. I was lucky enough to win both the items I bid on. A sign of things going well?

Rebecca Barnard and Billy Miller did their fabulous old-school thing and as the band rocked hard, the crowd cut loose and danced.  I envied their carefree lightheartedness, (how dare they). My knot tightened, I trembled on the inside. The bad butterflies rose within me and I was angry with them but I remembered my girl. I need to walk the walk. I can’t expect her to do something I won’t.

The last three songs. My name is called…challenge accepted. I skipped up those stairs and shape-shifted to band member, no rehearsal. We harmonised, we twisted, we rocked out so seamlessly no one would have known a thing about my doubts.

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I headed home proud of myself, of my example to my daughter and ecstatic I did not go home regretful. I’d cast aside thoughts of what others might think. I did not flee from happiness.

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Sweetest icing on my cake? I made a friend who wants me back for the whole gig next year. Thank you Rebecca (and Billy) for letting me play; to my Twitchette for making me accountable; and thank you Purple Velvet, for your magical boost of confidence.

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There Is Always Art

by Twitchy Corner on August 19, 2014

You know those mornings you wake up and the Fuck You Bird is already singing?

“Those” mornings. The ones that don’t behave, you can’t put a foot right and just want to go back and start over? Yeah, those.

Last week was all about sick kids so I’ve been keen to get them back into routine. I too woke up queasy (but that’s only because we watched a graphic ep of Breaking Bad last night and I have the insides of a frilly pink girl).

As we pulled into the two-minute “Kiss and Go” zone at school Miss 7 pulled a last minute refusal. The kid who mucked up long after bedtime, gaily blasting showtunes from her bed like an unapologetic drunkard suddenly had a “sore tummy” and needed a “sleep-in”. (Hangover?)

We’ve just made some progress on wrenching school-morning separation anxiety, our teacher gently suggesting some tougher love. So I got out of the car, calmly hugged and reassured her, turned to make my leave. With time up and traffic banking, my girl clutched her abdomen with crossed arms and a crumpling face and cried out “BUT MY TUMMY HURTS! I’M TOO SICK FOR SCHOOL!”

Scanning for confounded, photo-snapping council officers, never mind onlookers, it was hard to think clearly. I urged my girl to go inside as she protested. Feeling like the worst mother ever, I drove off around the corner, not daring to look back. Sometimes I doubt I have the stones for this gig!

I was about to hotfoot it back but the wiser option was to phone. The Assistant Principal counselled me, checked in on the class, assured me my girl was already fine and that I’d done the right thing. I’d needed to hear that; a history of ASD parenting predisposes one to high sensitivity in these matters. Hooray for professional guidance and support!

Off home now for my coffee reward, where favoured vintage cups are a comfort…but too soon…SMASH!

Farewell treasured 50′s cup, with your curvaceous lines, petite base and glossy Pink Cocoa insides…

My husband ran in to find me standing somewhat mesmerised over the accident site.
“Why aren’t you wiping it up?”
“Oh…because despite my sads I’m loving the splash I just made.”

Wherever possible, all pain should be converted into some form of art don’t you think? At the very least, blogged?

image Your faithful service has been honoured, Pink Cocoa.

New café in hand, I hopped on the dying laptop to see- hold me! – I’d lost a Facebook Page Liker. (Pourquoi so cruel, world?)  

image And this afternoon, guess who greeted me at the school gate, all smiles?
“How was your day, Moopop?”
“Fantastic!”
(Eyeroll)

Well- tomorrow is always another day (with a morning in it) right? Please dog, let it not be one of “those“?

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